You must be silly to use a son as your only case study and not a daughter. I know a woman who constantly tore her husband’s clothes and fought with him. Meanwhile, the husband always wondered why she behaved that way.
One day, he discovered that she had received a call informing her that her mother was currently fighting with her father. Her mother had torn her father’s clothes and stripped him naked. That was the day the woman confessed that her mother had been doing this since she and her siblings were young. This means they may have learned that behaviour from their mother.
However, if they were fortunate enough to marry reasonable and peaceful men, the behaviour they had learned for years could eventually cause them to lose good husbands, and they might end up as single mothers.
As I am speaking to you right now, the woman who used to fight her husband has three daughters, and none of them currently lives with a man. They prefer to live very close to their mother rather than build homes with men. They may have relationships with men, but they would rather return to their own homes afterward.
Now, the question I expect you to ask is this: Why did the fighting grandmother remain with her husband while her daughters left their marriages?
The answer, in my view, is that her husband lacks self-esteem and education and has continued to tolerate the situation, perhaps believing that he is staying for the sake of his children.
So next time, you should use both genders as examples. Abi, wetin man do you that you always put the blame for domestic violence on men, as though women can never be perpetrators? Domestic violence can be committed by either gender, and both sides should be held accountable when it happens.